Surprising Physical Traits That Are Attractive To Americans

Physical attractiveness is partially primal, but culture exerts a heavy influence, according to licensed clinical social worker and psychotherapist Judy Scheel, writing for Psychology Today. For example, although a deeply engrained drive to procreate may be behind the fact that men find women more attractive during the fertile phase of their menstrual cycle, as a 2004 study highlighted, the media managed to create a moment in the 1990s when the frail (and presumably infertile) "heroin chic" look became synonymous with attractiveness.

Yes, as attractiveness is not purely primal, different cultures and countries have differing ideas about what is attractive. If you're from Denmark, you might be shocked to see someone with a facial tattoo, whereas in New Zealand you might find it appealing. While looking tan is a national obsession in Australia, pale skin is in in many parts of Asia. Likewise, what we as Americans find attractive might not be even remotely attractive to various other cultures. Here are the surprising physical traits that Americans find attractive. 

Being "plump" was considered pleasing in the early 1800s, but by the 1860s, the pressure to be thin was on (via Live Science). The pendulum has swung back and forth over the decades, but in recent years, it seems there's been a premium placed on being thin in America. The question becomes: Just how thin? Moreover, does the standard change based on gender? How about other demographic factors? 

A 1990 study out of the University of New Mexico and published in the journal Sex Roles found that men put a great deal of emphasis on "thinness" in determining which women they find attractive. Decades later, a 2020 study published in the same journal found that American women tended to overestimate just how thin American men prefer them to be. And a 2020 survey of 2,000 men by dating site Badoo indicated a strong preference for women with at least a moderate amount of flesh on their bones (via Your Tango).

According to the American Society of Plastic Surgeons (ASPS), 970 women pursued buttock implants and 4,453 had a butt lift in 2019. While butt enhancements are not even close to the most popular plastic surgery for women (that would be breast augmentation, which was performed nearly 300,000 times in 2019), butt lifts are on the rise. Since the year 2000, this procedure has seen a 215 percent increase, according to the ASPS.

However, the preference for curvier female rear ends dates back to prehistoric times, according to a 2016 study published in the Journal of the American Society of Plastic Surgeons, which posited that a woman with a more pronounced bottom would appear to be more capable of carrying multiple pregnancies to term (via UT News). The study revealed that it's not necessarily the size of the buttocks so much as whether the lumbar curve — the angle from back to buttocks — is sharp enough to offer the appearance of a sizable booty, with the ideal being 45.5 degrees.

When the fitness pros at Treadmill Reviews asked 1,000 Americans to describe their ideal male body, it was found that Gen Xers (people born between 1965 and 1980) prefer their men a bit beefier than both younger and older generations. To put it another way: The middle-aged folks not only appreciate a "dad bod," but go so far as to rate it as more attractive than slimmer, fitter physiques. 

Indeed, an online survey of about 2,000 Americans adults conducted in 2017 by Kelton on behalf of Planet Fitness found that 69 percent of women prefer a man who's sporting anywhere from a few to 20 extra pounds. Seventy-eight percent of the women surveyed believe men with dad bods are "confident in their own skin," and 83 percent of the women who are mothers said they would be "proud" to have a husband with a "dad bod."

It's long been known that a deeply engrained survival-based drive to propagate the species drives perceptions of attractiveness, as a 2004 study in Proceedings of the Royal Society B: Biological Sciences highlighted. For example, heterosexual men tend to prefer women with an hourglass silhouette over women with a less pronounced waist-to-hip curve because an hourglass body shape suggests levels of estrogen that are consistent with higher fertility (via Vox).

However, culture and other realities of modern life come into play as well. Accordingly, heterosexual American women don't necessarily gravitate toward the most "manly" men (i.e., men who have pronounced testosterone-driven facial characteristics such as a large jaw, a prominent brow, and thick facial hair), a 2019 study found.

For example, in countries like the United States. where the health and economic conditions are favorable to men living longer lives, facial masculinity was considered less important to women in assessing the attractiveness of potential male partners, the study, which was published in Scientific Reports, revealed. In fact, it was noted that women in states where health conditions are less favorable tended to show a more pronounced preference for more masculine-looking male partners. 

It might appear from our Instagram feeds that Americans covet lush lips and will go to great lengths to make their own lips appear more luscious, including lip augmentation. In fact, according to the American Society of Plastic Surgeons, 31,789 lip augmentations were performed in the U.S. in 2019, up from 18,589 in the year 2000. By contrast, lip reduction was performed only 1,170 times in 2019. Although more people than ever may be getting lip fillers, that doesn't necessarily mean plump lips are the gold standard of attractiveness.

In fact, a 2019 study published in the journal Archives of Plastic Surgery found that natural lips were preferable to augmented lips among Americans, although it can't be discounted that the study skewed toward highly educated, middle-aged white females (93 percent of the people studied were college educated, 84 percent were females, 80 percent were white, and the average age was 47). 

The American "feminine" ideal tends toward bald legs and underarms, sociologist Jane Pilcher explained in an article on her website. That being said, women having clean-shaven legs and armpits is a relatively new phenomenon, according to The Atlantic, which noted that American women couldn't be bothered with hair removal prior to the late 19th century to early 20th century. 

In fact, the shaving of female armpit hair was practically unheard of prior to 1915, when the first sleeveless dress was presented as American fashion, and Harper's Bazaar proclaimed that this look could not be worn without clean-shaven pits, according to the hair removal specialists at LaserAway.

Although the pendulum swung briefly the other way in the 1960s and 1970s, when some women began to reclaim their body hair, for the most part Americans continue to view hairless legs and arms as signals of attractiveness in women.

Women who cut their hair short are often viewed differently than those who keep their hair long. "Longer hair connotes femininity with its associations of passivity and eagerness to please," Dr. Alexander Edmonds, a professor of social anthropology at the University of Edinburgh, told Refinery29. Indeed, longer hair is thought of as conventional, while shorter hair bucks societal norms. But does that mean that Americans find women with long hair to be more attractive than women with short hair? Not exactly. 

What long hair appears to signify, according to Psychology Today''s 2016 review of a number of studies addressing the issue, has actually little to do with attractiveness but a lot to do with status and personality, with short hair giving the woman wearing it a look of self-determination and long hair giving its wearers an aura of robust health. Additionally, a 2004 study published in the journal Human Nature found that long hair may also signify economic prosperity (on the theory that who else can afford the upkeep except those with money?).